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The way people treat others they don't have an immediate incentive to be nice to speaks volumes about them. If somebody is rude or manipulative to waitstaff on
by silentbicycle 18y ago
The way people treat others they don't have an immediate incentive to be nice to speaks volumes about them. If somebody is rude or manipulative to waitstaff on a date, for example, you know that's going to come out later in the relationship.
When somebody is acting nice for purely selfish reasons, it tends to be quite inconsistent.
- donw 18y agoOne of the best pieces of advice my mother gave me was 'date the waiter' -- because when you're on a date, the girl you're with is going to pay attention to how you treat the staff, because that's how you'll treat her.