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Maybe it is just some kind of fear of failure that you are going through at the moment?
by middus 17y ago
Maybe it is just some kind of fear of failure that you are going through at the moment?
- frossie 17y agoAnd continuing the amateur psychology, is this part of a pattern? You talk about starting hundreds of projects. If you generally have trouble finishing what you have started, it may not be the fault of the project. I'd say given how close you are and given your commitment to another person, the mature thing to do is suck up a bit of boredom and finish what you started. If your partner is right and it takes on a life of its own, you can hire somebody else to maintain it - either way it won't be a slave sentence. In Belbin-speak, you are a plant and you need to team up with a completer finisher. But whatever your natural inclinations, you still have made a commitment to your partner and need to deal with that responsibly.