Why does anyone care whether one group of people (e.g., women) wants to participate? I love how the antithesis of "equality" and "fairness" is always creeping i

Why does anyone care whether one group of people (e.g., women) wants to participate? I love how the antithesis of "equality" and "fairness" is always creeping its way into every sector under the misnomer of the latter two. "Here, be fair to everyone by limiting what you say so that women can participate." If you want to participate in a community, do so, otherwise don't. A community is an emergent whole comprised of the free will of its constituents, not some inorganic machine that should be influenced by special interest groups (e.g., <XYZ group>'s Rights Advocacy). TL;DR - If you don't like our community, go the fuck away or make your own "community" wherein your dogma can be enforced. Alt TL;DR - If you love something let it go...