Actually I did specifically say that! If you re-read my post (or read through the comments) you'll see that I specifically agree that you SHOULD be direct and

Actually I did specifically say that! If you re-read my post (or read through the comments) you'll see that I specifically agree that you SHOULD be direct and not be cagey. I do the same thing. However, it's ALSO true that if you NEVER talk about the process of making decisions, then you're only telling half the story. I'm not saying people should write differently. Even I won't, generally. I'm saying that it's ALSO useful to take time sometimes to talk about what life is really like so people don't get the wrong impression.