I'd suggest doing what you can to empower yourself. You mention money issues. Do what you can to clear that deck as fast as possible. Put yourself in a posit

I'd suggest doing what you can to empower yourself. You mention money issues. Do what you can to clear that deck as fast as possible. Put yourself in a position to be able to make a change when you determine it is needed. Even if you end up staying, I think this will put you in a stronger negotiating position. You're not "trapped". Not just the facts, but also the feeling of this may help in coming to better terms. That said, at the same time, don't burn yourself out trying to get there. If you just need to "get the fuck away" for a week or two, maybe that is a good and healthy short term goal, even if it costs a bit. Stay sane, and hopefully at least somewhat happy on a day-to-day basis. The words are easy to write... I know. Put is this way: Your "job" right now is you. Getting out of the current circumstance is the best for all involved. From someone who sat on his ass too long while things got worse and worse, wishing you a more... "punctual" resolution. :-)