It's all in your expectatives. Stop listening to what people say and start acting as you really want. For some insight look at a youtube channel called "simple

It's all in your expectatives. Stop listening to what people say and start acting as you really want. For some insight look at a youtube channel called "simple pick up" just three guys getting telephone numbers from guirls doing the most ridiculous or supossedly impossible stuff. Just be confident in youself and make them laugth.