Definitely agree. But I wonder what happens when your parent(s) do both those things but in different ways for different things? Kinda what I could say happene

Definitely agree. But I wonder what happens when your parent(s) do both those things but in different ways for different things? Kinda what I could say happened to me, my father being extremely authoritative(making me work at very young age for his business), but at the same time not being around to not set very much boundaries.