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No, it showed higher achievement and lower rate of depression among the "permissive" group.
by sebcat 13y ago
No, it showed higher achievement and lower rate of depression among the "permissive" group.
- nostrademons 13y agoYou're confusing "authoritative" and "authoritarian". Authoritative > permissive > authoritarian.
- jlgreco 13y agoThen so is rayiner, as far as I can tell. Not allowing your children to run around with other children outside is authoritarian, not authoritative.
- rayiner 13y agoI wasn't talking about the "running around" I was talking about the "being kids" rather than "mini adults." As used in the article, the distinction between "authoritarian" and "authoritative" is a cold versus warm distinction, not a "directed" versus "undirected" distinction.
- jlgreco 13y agoIsn't not allowing your children to run around with other kids a specific case of not allowing your children to "be kids" but rather requiring them to be "mini adults"?
- rayiner 13y agoSo what you said is that if you don't let your kids run around, that's authoritarian parenting, not authoritative parenting. Which I'll concede is true. I will also concede as true that not letting your kids run around is a specific case of not letting them "be kids" but requiring them to be "mini adults." However, that does not mean that requiring your kids to be "mini adults" is a sign of authoritarian parenting rather than authoritative parenting, for the obvious reason that you can require your children to generally act like "mini adults" while also letting them play once in awhile.
- taeric 13y agoI think the point was that that was still below the middle line.