I assumed the same. Then when I scrolled up to see who the author was I was pleasantly surprised that it's a woman who writes about this. (You usually only get

I assumed the same. Then when I scrolled up to see who the author was I was pleasantly surprised that it's a woman who writes about this. (You usually only get to read meta-social-stuff posts from women.) The bigger surprise was that she was self taught. (The surprise would be just as big if the author was a man.)