You can however give them a safe place. Trying to give a "safe" place is, unfortunately, part of the problem. Instead of it being a place where kids can be hel

You can however give them a safe place. Trying to give a "safe" place is, unfortunately, part of the problem. Instead of it being a place where kids can be helped if they get hurt, it has morphed into a (impossible) place where kids can't get hurt. Then, if something shatters that illusion, it's "off with her head!"