My best advice - get into a parents group. We formed our own group from the parents attending the same childbirth class. Your local child development council sh

My best advice - get into a parents group. We formed our own group from the parents attending the same childbirth class. Your local child development council should be able to help you out if necessary. It's VITAL to have a support system and to know that you're not the only parents to have these feeling and issues. There is NO substitute for personal interaction and commiseration. Even if you have parents and babysitters available, you need people to validate the feeling you're having which are normal and common. The group we formed lasted for many years and was very helpful while raising our 2 kids.