In that case I'd say it's similar to the fact that people get depressed regardless from their objective situations and how happy they should be relatively to ot

In that case I'd say it's similar to the fact that people get depressed regardless from their objective situations and how happy they should be relatively to others. Put another way, I'd say that even a spoiled rich valley girl who tries too hard to be the light of the party at too many social events can suffer from a valid burnout. I don't have as much sympathy for her as I would for the guy that burns himself out trying to earn enough money to fund his daughter's cancer treatment, but that's another matter entirely ;)