You know, I remembered an old saying while reading your comment too: "If wishes were horses, beggars would ride". :) I don't contest what you say, but getting

You know, I remembered an old saying while reading your comment too: "If wishes were horses, beggars would ride". :) I don't contest what you say, but getting out of these life situations isn't as easy as you put it either. There's more to it than meets the eye, it's a little more involved than "people should get off their seats and make life changes" and so, the best thing would be to show some human empathy to these people.