A label sometimes dooms people to a fate - "I have Aspergers so there's no point in me trying to socialize, I'll never understand it." Which is tragic, especia

A label sometimes dooms people to a fate - "I have Aspergers so there's no point in me trying to socialize, I'll never understand it." Which is tragic, especially if the condition is mild or not entirely cross the big thick fuzzy line of has it/doesn't have it. I actually think it's standard practice to under-diagnose something like this, because of what it sometimes does to borderline cases. I could be so incredibly wrong, though, so please let me know.