Similar experience here. I believe, if the mother is breast-feeding, then she inevitably has more bonding time with the baby and they will establish a deeper re

Similar experience here. I believe, if the mother is breast-feeding, then she inevitably has more bonding time with the baby and they will establish a deeper relationship then with the father. Playing around during swaddling is then the only chance in the first months, where the father can have "quality time" with his baby.