I have 3 or 4 people I would consider very close friends meaning I can openly talk to and depend on them for nearly everything. At least one would qualify as a

I have 3 or 4 people I would consider very close friends meaning I can openly talk to and depend on them for nearly everything. At least one would qualify as a best friend, effectively family. How I talk to them depends on their distance. Closer means more time face to face over lunch, dinner or by getting together, farther means more chat via IM. Looking at that thread you linked, I'd suggest expanding one's horizons a bit. I have good long-term friendships and associations born from an interest in technology, martial arts, gaming and more.