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We don't ask, because we've learned from both direct & indirect experience that we won't get it (and may be punished for asking). We're good at making something
by ctdonath 14y ago
We don't ask, because we've learned from both direct & indirect experience that we won't get it (and may be punished for asking). We're good at making something from nothing, we just do it and others expect us to; thus making most needs seem a matter of wants, and wants being looked down on as waste, we learn there is little point in asking for more.
You are a good manager, sensitive to how a little money spent on a good chair can make a great difference. Alas, you are not the only one subordinates are exposed to, and takes little for others to undo the good you did.