I think Rachel's point is not that it only happens to her because she's a woman, but that she feels that it happens to her more often or more acutely because sh

I think Rachel's point is not that it only happens to her because she's a woman, but that she feels that it happens to her more often or more acutely because she's a woman. I don't dare presume to know her life enough to tell her she's wrong about that feeling. Saying that it happens to you as well doesn't exactly work as a refutation.