How will the answers to these questions help you? To be honest, if you ask all of these questions, I think it may feel like you're interviewing your lunchmate.

How will the answers to these questions help you? To be honest, if you ask all of these questions, I think it may feel like you're interviewing your lunchmate. Instead, could you possibly turn this into a mentorship relationship? Maybe figure out what personal advice you might appreciate from them instead.