Yes! I was hoping first for awareness (step one of the process to rehabilitation) and to catalyze some change. You're right in that perhaps doucheshaming is not

Yes! I was hoping first for awareness (step one of the process to rehabilitation) and to catalyze some change. You're right in that perhaps doucheshaming is not the best. However, some don't realize they're doing these things-- they just started out, eager to try something, and sometimes they learn and change from it. I'm pretty optimistic that people will recognize something wrong and try to fix it. I'm not sure what else I can do-- I've tried individually talking to them, learning their perspective and hopefully picking up on mine as well, but the scale is fairly limited.