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In the same way at a VC will often send you to an associate because they’re “too nice” to say no. Thats one thing that bothers me in business, is the "social c
by neurotech1 14y ago
In the same way at a VC will often send you to an associate because they’re “too nice” to say no.
Thats one thing that bothers me in business, is the "social contract" of avoiding appearing abrasive or aloof, so everyone tells each other white lies to make everyone feel better. I'm not referring specifically to VCs (I have almost no experience with VCs). Contrast that with somebody like PG who has a reputation for being blunt, but also being constructive and generous with his time.
Accountability belongs on both sides of the table is for everyone's benefit, and Danielle is right to call attention to this.
- hkmurakami 14y agoWe're also in a business world where we can't be upfront with our insecurities, worries, personal failures (unless they somehow lead to you becoming Herculean thereafter), self-doubt, etc. No, it is not healthy, and imo it contributes significantly to the detriment of our mental health.
- rhizome 14y agoBusiness health, however, thrives on information asymmetry. "How the VC really feels," is just another instance of it.
- orangethirty 14y agoThats one thing that bothers me in business, is the "social contract" of avoiding appearing abrasive or aloof, so everyone tells each other white lies to make everyone feel better. That happens everywhere in life.