Here's a good test: Would the article have been just as compelling and informative if he had written it to his husband? Everything the same except replace the w

Here's a good test: Would the article have been just as compelling and informative if he had written it to his husband? Everything the same except replace the word "wife" with "husband". Yes it would have. Just because his partner is a woman this article can't be written this way. That upsets me.