My wife works in a family court, I sent her your post and she replied with this: - Don't believe in anything that people will say to you, they are usually wron

My wife works in a family court, I sent her your post and she replied with this: - Don't believe in anything that people will say to you, they are usually wrong, talk to a lawyer or court services - Litigation is not necessary in a divorce, but it seems that she wants that, so yes, you need a lawyer - Your case is not unique and the decision about it has already been made by past cases, no one will dig your computer logs, except if you say you can't pay for child support and are posting ferrari pictures in your facebook - You will talk to a lawyer, try to find someone you trust (someone recommended by friends or family) for a chat before making decisions, you don't need to pay for a initial chat