The bigger issue that I see in today's college crowd is just a lack of vision for their future. This isn't about man or woman. I don't mean someone should know

The bigger issue that I see in today's college crowd is just a lack of vision for their future. This isn't about man or woman. I don't mean someone should know in glorious detail what they want to be doing in 10, 20, 30 years, but there should at least broad strokes that represent some kind of plan. How about a simple question for a man or a woman - Do you want to have a family one day? If so, have you thought about how your current choices will affect your ability to have kids or even raise kids? Along the lines of the article - How serious are you with wanting to be married or have a long term relationship? I find it faulty logic to believe that someone can meet their life partner at college but it certainly doesn't hurt to be aware of the possibility. I find such inquiries are given the bare minimum in thought. I am sorry to say that no one can have it all. It is not a gender thing. Everything in life has trade-offs.