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No, those are not the facts. That is your interpretation, and it is worded in your vocabulary. That vocabulary means something to you but may mean something els
by swombat 14y ago
No, those are not the facts. That is your interpretation, and it is worded in your vocabulary. That vocabulary means something to you but may mean something else to someone else.
The wiser way to behave here is to realise that your interpretation may or may not be true, since you are working from a highly incomplete data set and therefore tone down the use of vocabulary that may have multiple meanings and instead focus on vocabulary that is less likely to be interpreted as an insult.
For example, you might have said:
> I notice from one of your statements that you seem to be working for a fund yourself. Do you think that this impacts your view of this problem?
Instead of:
> Ah, so you have a dog in this fight. You're not an impartial participant, striving for objectivity. That means I'm wasting my time talking to you -- you're not a scientist, you're a salesman.
All the bits in italics (yes, that's most of your comment) are potentially insulting to the person you're replying to. The first one is a mild character attack, the second one is a direct insult, and the third one is easily perceived as a direct character attack, especially in the context of the other two. Overall, this sentence is the comment equivalent of sneering at someone at a well-to-do party, and loudly dismissing them as a damn fool. If you're the host of the party or someone notable, you may get away with this sort of behaviour, but as a guest, you will be the one led to the door.
The restatement above makes the exact same point, casts the exact same aspersions on the views of the person you're replying to, but does so in a way that is not perceived as an insult.
- lutusp 14y ago> That is your interpretation, and it is worded in your vocabulary. That vocabulary means something to you but may mean something else to someone else. This is a scientific discussion, not one about vocabulary or a post-modern view of reality. > All the bits in italics (yes, that's most of your comment) are potentially insulting to the person you're replying to. That's the way it is in science. Science is not diplomacy. And the WSJ Dartboard Contest went on insulting the same people in the same way for years, but without lifting the veil of ignorance in which these people live, as the above exchange proves. http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10000872396390444024204578044390473058954.html http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000087239639044402420457804... Quote: "The darts [i.e random stock picks] have historically beaten the readers [i.e. stockbrokers], with 28 wins out of 47 contests."
- swombat 14y agoI'm sure you're a lot of fun at parties. This is a scientific discussion No it's not, it's a fucking web argument between a couple of strangers. not one about vocabulary All thought is about vocabulary to a large extent. Certainly all communication is about vocabulary. Anyway, I'm done wasting my time with this. Someday you'll be ready to get on with the rest of us humans. We'll be glad to have you then.