Escapism is a very dangerous practice, as it drives you to suppress the thoughts and decisions which hurt. What is ignored is that these exact things are the on

Escapism is a very dangerous practice, as it drives you to suppress the thoughts and decisions which hurt. What is ignored is that these exact things are the ones which actually "MATTER", and putting off dealing with these "devils" is a surefire way to drive you into further depression... Drop that pot, and start dealing with your partner. Don't post stuff on HN and feel good about yourself. TALK TO HIM. That is the only way the pain will ease.