I could tell you exactly what to do (find yourself a good therapist, cut out the weed, and get an anti-depressant prescription) but instead I'll ask: what would

I could tell you exactly what to do (find yourself a good therapist, cut out the weed, and get an anti-depressant prescription) but instead I'll ask: what would you choose if you were taking a ten- or twenty-year perspective on your decision?