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Get that weed out of your system. Marijauana isn't the devil, but it can have a very significant impact on your mental state and perception of the world. Avoid
by staunch 14y ago
Get that weed out of your system. Marijauana isn't the devil, but it can have a very significant impact on your mental state and perception of the world.
Avoid all drugs and alcohol for a month, so your mind can adjust, and then sit down and talk this shit through with at least two smart people you trust to have your best interests in mind.
- jjjj9999as 14y agoI hope this isn't downvoted, but you should realize that quitting marijuana suddenly will make his stress far worse for 2-4 weeks. His real problem is some deeper misalignment with his emotions towards things. There's nothing bad about kanbans, they are tools used to help you get organized and get things done. There's also nothing bad about disagreements with your cofounder. The difficulty is that he's taking all of these things and reacting strongly to it. In all of my experience, I've never learned to teach this, but what he needs to learn is acceptance, and to live in the present. It's more important than ever to just give up control for a bit, let your cofounder do the leading. Taking on all the stress yourself is what kills you, and if you don't trust your cofounder, then you are taking on way more stress than you need.
- pilooch 14y agoLet me second that. Remain cold turkey for a little while, and grab a side project for consuming your energy on evenings. Some code you'd like to try on some new device, anything. And get medical attention, ask your friends for a loan if needed. This is life, love, work, in that order, not the opposite :)