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I've read your post several times to make sure I understood it correctly before posting. I replied to your baseless assertions that kids need male role models

by rada 14y ago

I've read your post several times to make sure I understood it correctly before posting. I replied to your baseless assertions that kids need male role models and both genders for their development: "in the absence of a father figure kids will look for role models [several examples of male role models]", "you don't want a homogeneous environment". My links show research that specifically says this is not true. The author of the article goes to great lengths to say it's not true. Do you have any facts or personal experiences that say otherwise? (If by "uncle" and "Clint Eastwood next door" you didn't mean a male role model, and by "homogeneous environment" you didn't mean gender-homogeneous, then what did you mean)?

hcarvalhoalves 14y ago
"My links show research that specifically says this is not true." The researches show that there's no evidence of the importance of genders on parenting, and I agree. That is quite different than saying exposure to people of both genders is not important. It is important just as it is important for children to be exposed to people of different age, ethnicity, culture, opinion, and such. This exposure helps them build complete mental models of how other people behave, which is important for the development of empathy and self-image. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empathy#Development http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empathy#Development
- rada 14y ago
  Oh really? So you see an article titled "What it's like to have two mothers", respond with "kids need male role models" but excuse everybody, what you really mean is, "it is important for children to be exposed to people of different age, ethnicity, culture, opinion, and such". Ok then. FYI, kids grow up just fine in culturally and ethnically homogeneous environments. There is a world outside the United States or wherever you happen to be from. There are very large countries out there made up entirely of one ethnicity and one culture, and not everyone in those countries is devoid of empathy.
  - hcarvalhoalves 14y ago
    "So you see an article titled "What it's like to have two mothers", respond with "kids need male role models" but excuse everybody" You read what you wanted to read.

by rada 14y ago

hcarvalhoalves 14y ago

"My links show research that specifically says this is not true." The researches show that there's no evidence of the importance of genders on parenting, and I agree. That is quite different than saying exposure to people of both genders is not important. It is important just as it is important for children to be exposed to people of different age, ethnicity, culture, opinion, and such. This exposure helps them build complete mental models of how other people behave, which is important for the development of empathy and self-image. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empathy#Development http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empathy#Development

rada 14y ago
Oh really? So you see an article titled "What it's like to have two mothers", respond with "kids need male role models" but excuse everybody, what you really mean is, "it is important for children to be exposed to people of different age, ethnicity, culture, opinion, and such". Ok then. FYI, kids grow up just fine in culturally and ethnically homogeneous environments. There is a world outside the United States or wherever you happen to be from. There are very large countries out there made up entirely of one ethnicity and one culture, and not everyone in those countries is devoid of empathy.
- hcarvalhoalves 14y ago
  "So you see an article titled "What it's like to have two mothers", respond with "kids need male role models" but excuse everybody" You read what you wanted to read.