But he's not telling it to her, is he? If he was telling it to her she would have every right to feel offended and report to the authorities. But that's not th

But he's not telling it to her, is he? If he was telling it to her she would have every right to feel offended and report to the authorities. But that's not the case here. If you made a penis joke to a friend, would you want — or indeed, expect — to be fired for it?