I have mixed feelings about this. Being married definitely forces you make different decisions than you would otherwise. You cling on where you are longer, no a

I have mixed feelings about this. Being married definitely forces you make different decisions than you would otherwise. You cling on where you are longer, no adventure. There are no quick decisions, but long and strategized, calculated ones. I think one makes more "mature" decisions when dealing with an adverse situation. However, on the other hand being married and having children (2 in my case) is a huge attention drain. You probably will buy the dwelling you're living and it bring its own distraction. Working long stretches of time, and even keep on thinking and solving problems while not working is long gone. Would I trade family to the other? No way, life is more than that. It's probably a cliche but true; smile of a cute 1 year old daughter worth more than millions of lines of code.