It is still not entirely clear to me why people allow the whole Facebook wall shenanigans. I've closed mine a long time ago, exactly because I never understood

It is still not entirely clear to me why people allow the whole Facebook wall shenanigans. I've closed mine a long time ago, exactly because I never understood why would I want to mix in one place the public, the personal, and the intimate. The very idea of blurred boundaries is not sane, it's bound to keep creating problems (like the one you describe).