We totally exist in real life. My e-mail address as a kid was programmingprincess. ^_^ I no longer wear so much pink, but I still happily occupy both sides of

We totally exist in real life. My e-mail address as a kid was programmingprincess. ^_^ I no longer wear so much pink, but I still happily occupy both sides of the "girlie girl"/"techie girl" divide - and in fact, I've found that most women in tech I know don't fall under the socially awkward/fugly/geeky stereotype... if I sat a bunch of women from my office down in a room and you had to pick out the developers from say, the designers, QA, PMs, HR folk, etc - I'm not sure if you could. I think this dichotomy is enforced more by the media than it is by real life.