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There are a plethora of white male role models to look to for inspiration in nearly any professional field (even basketball!). Is the same true for black lesbia
by GHFigs 14y ago
There are a plethora of white male role models to look to for inspiration in nearly any professional field (even basketball!). Is the same true for black lesbians?
Black lesbians are as free to look up to white male role models as anybody else, just as I'm free to not care about someone's race, gender, or sexuality when I look to them as a role model. (Or religion, ethnicity, etc.)
Lots of people with money and good educational pedigrees have to face the accusation their education was simply purchased by their parents
You wouldn't say that poor people are privileged though, would you? This is where the concept gets shaky, because one person's challenge does not always equate to another person's advantage.
And the point of talking about all this isn't to make you feel bad, or to say that one group is better than another — it's just to create understanding.
You might reconsider what kind of understanding is created when you accuse people of not working as hard or persevering through as much as other people. Nothing is more alienating to hard-working non-bigots (of which there are many among the privileged) than to be accused of secretly being lazy bigots.
- beatpanda 14y agoSaying that other people had to work harder than you is not the same as saying you are lazy. It sounds like you're projecting.
- GHFigs 14y agoI'm asking you to consider the possibility that you've failed to communicate the message you intended, instead of attacking people for not getting it.