I don't think trying to get all analytic and Freudian about her state of mind is either 1) Intellectually honest (since you most likely don't know anything abo

I don't think trying to get all analytic and Freudian about her state of mind is either 1) Intellectually honest (since you most likely don't know anything about her) 2) Useful in the scope of this discussion I'm not at all advocating for or against her actions, I'm too remote from the affair to be judge of anything, but please let's not let it slip on a personal terrain, you're simply putting personal theories on the table here, maybe she's better adjusted than all other parties involved for all we know.