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Your invocation of some obscure situation where you would feel legitimately threatened in a sexual way has nothing to do with the reality of what happened. It's
by devilshaircut 14y ago
Your invocation of some obscure situation where you would feel legitimately threatened in a sexual way has nothing to do with the reality of what happened. It's true that women can be put into sexually threatening situations. It's patently false that what happened at Pycon is an example of one.
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- wpietri 14y agoI never said that they were. I'm trying to help Joeboy understand why sexual content can trigger legitimate fears. Note that at this very conference, there was other inappropriate stuff going on: http://ivory.idyll.org/blog/pycon-2013-and-codes-of-conduct.html http://ivory.idyll.org/blog/pycon-2013-and-codes-of-conduct.... So although I agree that Adira was in no immediate danger, I think she was right to see jokes like that as being part of an environment that alienates women and enables problematic behavior.
- Joeboy 14y ago> I think she was right to see jokes like that as being part of an environment that alienates women I would agree that those jokes could alienate some women and men, and therefore don't contribute to an inclusive environment. And the other stuff in the post you link to sounds crappy. I'm in favour of having a code of conduct, particularly if there's a culture of inappropriateness that needs addressing. I still think your conflation of dick jokes with sexual threat is OTT.