When I first heard of this I was expecting another "CouchDb: perform like a pr0n star" indecent. After learning that the offending comments were made in private

When I first heard of this I was expecting another "CouchDb: perform like a pr0n star" indecent. After learning that the offending comments were made in private, not by one of the speakers, and of their lack of explicitness, this entire thing seems entirely overblown.