"It is the mark of a sensible man that he cares what other people think about him." Agree with you (and my daughter is much much older). I would be totally wa

"It is the mark of a sensible man that he cares what other people think about him." Agree with you (and my daughter is much much older). I would be totally wary of a man that decided in lieu of buying a ring for my daughter to make a donation to a charity. The ring is a gift for the woman. In the event of a divorce the woman typically gets to keep the ring it's an asset and does have value despite all the drivel of the OP and everyone else here is saying. Owning 100% of something that is only worth 50% of what someone else paid for it is still more than 0 (what you get with a charity donation at least monetarily).