You bring up good points. However I wonder if many of the stigmas you mention are ingrained into society only by the persisting culture, and so one should not

You bring up good points. However I wonder if many of the stigmas you mention are ingrained into society only by the persisting culture, and so one should not fear challenging them? There are many single-dads that do a wonderful job of raising kids alone as a single parent (admittedly I don't know any who started taking care of the kids below the age of 2 -- and I do accept that even 2 years is a hell of a long time).