Feeling like a loser/winner is counterproductive. The first step is to understand that social labels are bullshit, and the only truth is that we are all going

Feeling like a loser/winner is counterproductive. The first step is to understand that social labels are bullshit, and the only truth is that we are all going to die. Look up, pretend you have purpose, that's "hope". People with hope attract other people, they glow. The second step is to understand that there is not such thing as obligations in the universe. They don't exist. There are only actions, consequences and how you feel about yourself. The only other people that matter are the ones that also care about you. The third step is to see the narratives in society. There are entrepeneurs from all walks of life, but some get promoted because they fit the current narrative, they sell news articles (for example, the dropout hacker with the social media company). The fourth step is formalizing your objectives. Lists. Be realistic. The fifth step is formalizing your assets. Lists. Be realistic. The sixth is fiding a vector. In which direction you have to push to get where you feel you need to be. The seventh is start pushing without doubt. Don't doubt, be clinical, get "feedback" and respond. Remember there is no "failure", only changing pathways and goals.