It kind of does, "dress to impress", "fake it til you make it", are different ways of trying to manipulate other peoples perception of your abilities. Instead

It kind of does, "dress to impress", "fake it til you make it", are different ways of trying to manipulate other peoples perception of your abilities. Instead people should dress to make themselves feel good about themselves, childen wearing a superhero cape aren't trying to make you think they're super heros, they wear it because it makes them feel like super heros, because when they look in a mirror, they think they look awesome. When you find the perfect hat that makes you look awesome, there's a moment where all that matters is that bad ass person looking back at you in the mirror, who for that moment looks like the you that exceeds every standard you've ever set for yourself, who can do anything. You know other people would never think the same thing about the same person in that mirror, that's fine, this is your moment, not theirs. Every time you wear that hat, you get to experience a little bit more of that moment, even if everybody insists the hat looks ridiculous on you. They call you stubborn for wearing it, but the reality is in this case, you have transcended caring about what they think about you, when you wear that hat.