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> I don't have too much time left. My 20ies are gone. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buckminster_Fuller#Bankruptcy_and_depression http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bu

by recuter 14y ago

> I don't have too much time left. My 20ies are gone. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buckminster_Fuller#Bankruptcy_and_depression http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buckminster_Fuller#Bankruptcy_a... "By age 32, Fuller was bankrupt and jobless, living in low-income public housing in Chicago, Illinois. In 1922, Fuller's young daughter Alexandra died from complications from polio and spinal meningitis. Allegedly, he felt responsible and this caused him to drink frequently and to contemplate suicide for a while. He finally chose to embark on "an experiment, to find what a single individual [could] contribute to changing the world and benefiting all humanity."" You're a young man from Switzerland whose biggest problem (from what you say) is loneliness. Could be worse, don't you think? Your life is hardly over, it hasn't even begun. Justin Bieber is 19 and has quite a few #1 albums already, should every 20-something singer feel bad about themselves as a result? You need a new yardstick to measure yourself by. Happiness, whatever that means, peace, it comes from within. You can't succeed your way to it really, money and position will only marginally improve your internal world. Don't conflate the two. My advice is to more accurately attribute your ennui to "wasting your 20s" as in postponing life to when you "make it" - allow yourself to start living now the way you truly want to and enjoy yourself, time goes by fast. You can be happy no matter how things play out, at least happier than you are now, and try your darndest to make your mark all at the same time. Edit For context : I'm 23 and have been hell bent on "startups" since I was 16 for various reasons. Sometimes I can't sleep because the ol' noggin won't shut off and thoughts fly at a million miles an hour, its a certain feeling that burns you from within. It is a good thing, ride it.

GoranM 14y ago
> money and position will only marginally improve your internal world Maybe at a certain level, but for most people, money and position would provide both the resources and the freedom to live as they "truly want".
vahidR 14y ago
dude.. your link was Awesome.. I'm on my early 30s and have some difficulties, as well. It gave my hope back
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CamperBob2 14y ago
You're a young man from Switzerland whose biggest problem (from what you say) is loneliness. Could be worse, don't you think? I was tempted to say that, too, but then it occurred to me that although he's in his twenties he might have recently been told he only had $X years to live by a doctor. If that's true, I wouldn't want to suggest he should spend them with C++. :-P
kubrickslair 14y ago
Can't help not quoting Matt Drance. http://www.appleoutsider.com/2011/10/06/sj/ http://www.appleoutsider.com/2011/10/06/sj/ "And so more than ever, I find myself inspired. Steve’s untimely death reminds us we can never give up. He could have given up at any point in the seven years since his first cancer diagnosis, but he did not. The vast majority of Apple’s unprecedented resurgence took place while Steve Jobs stared death in the face. How many of us could have lasted this long at all, let alone accomplish all that he did along the way? Ten years ago today, we still had not yet met the iPod. The last of Steve’s five decades on this Earth ended up being his most accomplished by far. Remember that whenever you think your best days are behind you. We can’t control when our lives begin, and we can’t really control when they end. All we have is what’s in between. Make it count."
DoggettCK 14y ago
> Your life is hardly over, it hasn't even begun. Justin Bieber is 19 and has quite a few #1 albums already, should every 20-something singer feel bad about themselves as a result? You need a new yardstick to measure yourself by. Some of the best advice I ever got was "Never measure yourself by someone else's ruler." Especially not Beiber's. If you're not dead yet, you have all the time left.

by recuter 14y ago

GoranM 14y ago

> money and position will only marginally improve your internal world Maybe at a certain level, but for most people, money and position would provide both the resources and the freedom to live as they "truly want".

vahidR 14y ago

dude.. your link was Awesome.. I'm on my early 30s and have some difficulties, as well. It gave my hope back

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CamperBob2 14y ago

You're a young man from Switzerland whose biggest problem (from what you say) is loneliness. Could be worse, don't you think? I was tempted to say that, too, but then it occurred to me that although he's in his twenties he might have recently been told he only had $X years to live by a doctor. If that's true, I wouldn't want to suggest he should spend them with C++. :-P

kubrickslair 14y ago

Can't help not quoting Matt Drance. http://www.appleoutsider.com/2011/10/06/sj/ http://www.appleoutsider.com/2011/10/06/sj/ "And so more than ever, I find myself inspired. Steve’s untimely death reminds us we can never give up. He could have given up at any point in the seven years since his first cancer diagnosis, but he did not. The vast majority of Apple’s unprecedented resurgence took place while Steve Jobs stared death in the face. How many of us could have lasted this long at all, let alone accomplish all that he did along the way? Ten years ago today, we still had not yet met the iPod. The last of Steve’s five decades on this Earth ended up being his most accomplished by far. Remember that whenever you think your best days are behind you. We can’t control when our lives begin, and we can’t really control when they end. All we have is what’s in between. Make it count."

DoggettCK 14y ago

> Your life is hardly over, it hasn't even begun. Justin Bieber is 19 and has quite a few #1 albums already, should every 20-something singer feel bad about themselves as a result? You need a new yardstick to measure yourself by. Some of the best advice I ever got was "Never measure yourself by someone else's ruler." Especially not Beiber's. If you're not dead yet, you have all the time left.