The good ones do often go early, because they don't have the "issues" to begin with or have parental help to work them out. As I am married to someone not orig

The good ones do often go early, because they don't have the "issues" to begin with or have parental help to work them out. As I am married to someone not originally from the USA I would emphasize that there are societal issues you will have to deal with, but they can be worked around. Living overseas is actually a great idea in any case.