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This is my one chance That's the thing. Your one chance for what? I'll be damned if I waste my most functional hours of the day on something that doesn't mat
by crusso 14y ago
This is my one chance
That's the thing. Your one chance for what?
I'll be damned if I waste my most functional hours of the day on something that doesn't matter.
Do you have some notion of an afterlife where that even matters?
Really, I'm not that nihilistic in the way I live my life, but intellectually I don't really fight it.
- eli_gottlieb 14y agoIf he doesn't believe in the afterlife, that only makes his limited lifespan more valuable.
- crusso 14y agoMore valuable at the moment, I guess so... but also utterly pointless.
- Domenic_S 14y agoOr not, because if you build/do something really meaningful, it will be impacting people long after you turn to dust. People often call that 'leaving a legacy'. MLK's legacy makes people's lives better, today, every day. Lincoln's legacy does the same. Steve Jobs, Henry Ford, etc. Ansel Adams, John Lennon. All these people are gone, but the version of light that they each brought to the world touches new lives -- people that are living -- every single day. And then the people who are living get inspired and do the same, on and on forever.
- crusso 14y agoPointless to the individual after he is dust, though. There is no meaning to dust.
- Domenic_S 14y agoThat's the point. If the impact of your life is measured by the number of people you affect, then you want the have best possible affect spread over the most amount of people possible. Some people have lived such meaningful lives that their impact outlives them. If you can have an impact on the living not only while you are living but while you're dead, that's quite the accomplishment.
- dsego 14y agoChance to do the things that matter to you or your loved ones. I have recently had a painful remainder of how short life is when my aunt deceased in her late 50s. And it made it painfully obvious that none of the stuff that I'm working on right now really means anything to me. A year, two or ten from now I won't even remember tweaking the site to work on IE9. Nor will the client, nor the customers. And then, ten years from now, one of my parents might die and then I could only wish that instead of spending 2-3 hours finding out why some js or css wasn't working in firefox on mac, I spent that time being with them.
- zoba 14y agoThats the thing: I don't know what the most important thing for me to be doing is. So the best thing I can do is figure it out. Putting myself in a position of wealth and power opens more doors so that I have more opportunities to figure out just what the hell I'm supposed to be doing here. If I were to "give up" and not strive to grow, I'd have less access to the variety of things which can be done. Therefore, I must work hard and must get better and must do things that matter so that I have a better chance at figuring out what I'm here for. If it turns out that I'm not actually here for anything at all, then I really haven't lost anything because there was nothing to win in the first place. But, giving up before you even know the answer? Thats a sad story.
- crusso 14y agoOkay, I like that answer. Just asking out of curiosity. Personally, I've never found a greater purpose to my life. I don't really think I'm looking for one any more. I have my family, my work, my hobbies, etc. I never feel like I must have some higher purpose to get up in the morning and do my thing... but I know that everyone is different.