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I don't have any deep or insightful comments to make on this article. I just want to say I read it a month or so ago and was really impressed with it at the ti
by ChrisXYZ 18y ago
I don't have any deep or insightful comments to make on this article.
I just want to say I read it a month or so ago and was really impressed with it at the time. It's a really intelligent, well written list of reasons why relationship don't work out, and what it takes to make them succeed. It also gives some good insights into couple's counseling.
I hope it does okay on this site, and doesn't get ignored because it's not the usual fare here.
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- sidsavara 18y agoI actually think people on HN will enjoy it, because it takes a rather emotional topic and breaks it down into what are the primary reasons he has seen for marriages failing in what, I assume is, his professional opinion. I think people like me enjoy hard problems, finding out the root cause, and determining a solution. From that perspective, I thoroughly enjoyed this article as it presented some salient causes for a fairly difficult problem (keeping a marriage/relationship going). It wasn't full of platitude and suggestions to "date once a week" etc - it was a solid breakdown of causes. Coupled with the recent discussion of the bachelor paradox, I really enjoyed the diversion.
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- ALee 18y agoAgree with you ChrysXYZ. In fact, I think you could replace spouse and relationship with co-founder(s) and startup very easily. The article is fundamentally about human relationships and how they fall apart or stay together.