So... 1. Match on proximity/intrest 2. Man puts $X in escrow associated with woman's profile (and not any other profile at the same time) 3. Woman sees that

So... 1. Match on proximity/intrest 2. Man puts $X in escrow associated with woman's profile (and not any other profile at the same time) 3. Woman sees that guy put $X in escrow 4. Woman agrees to meet 5. They go have a nice dinner 6. The check arrives. 7. [Man or woman or both together] uses online service to release escrow funds and pay for the dinner. or alternatively 4. Woman rejects invitation or ignores it for Y amount of time 5. Funds returned for possible use on another invitation to somebody else Is this what you're suggesting? Do I have it right? Basically making the commitment to pay for dinner (or something) explicit in the service?