People learn at their own rates, and if you're a parent, you'll learn (extremely uncomfortably) that your children have to - must - make their own mistakes. And

People learn at their own rates, and if you're a parent, you'll learn (extremely uncomfortably) that your children have to - must - make their own mistakes. And poking folks, rubbing their noses in their mistakes is a good way to get a black eye - not a friend.