You lost any power you had by letting this to on for 3 months. Option right now are limited, and will ultimately put you in a bad light. Either force the hand,

You lost any power you had by letting this to on for 3 months. Option right now are limited, and will ultimately put you in a bad light. Either force the hand, or start looking for another job. Note that by forcing the hand you might be forced to look for another job. This sort of thing doesn't just happen. It is a pattern of abuse tht you have accepted overtime. Not because you are a fool, but due to it being your job. We keep compromising and overtime dig ourselves into a pretty deep hole.