I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic with that last paragraph, but if you're going to forcefully mold your child like that it will either have the opposite ef

I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic with that last paragraph, but if you're going to forcefully mold your child like that it will either have the opposite effect or they will go along with your plan and grow up with no ambition and no self-determination. There is a balance between doing what will put food on the table and what their desires are, and if either of the two are out of balance, they will not lead a self-fulfilling life. Your method is essentially telling kids to think inside the box and do what will get you the most money. And what's the deal with the weird Asian stereotype obsession.