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First, I agree with some of what you said about "simple lives", "measure of ambition", and especially "settle for any salary", and I totally agree that the way
by jholman 14y ago
First, I agree with some of what you said about "simple lives", "measure of ambition", and especially "settle for any salary", and I totally agree that the way this "study" uses salaries for understanding is pathetic. Other commenters elsewhere made even more clear arguments about how H1B might make this effect even stronger.
Second: other commenters have already pointed out that your comment about being "well-networked", while true, has nothing to do with racism. So don't confuse those things.
Third:
> *Can we talk about racism?
Maybe you're content to just vent your frustration, and throw blame around. Or maybe you want to have a meaningful conversation. I don't know you, I don't know your goals. But if your goal is to have a meaningful conversation about racism, or educate the privileged white people about their privilege, you're doing it wrong.
One of the facts of human nature is that people don't want to hear this shit. If you want to illuminate anyone, you have to make a very careful and thoughtful argument, because when you make sloppy mistakes, that gives people the excuse they need to let themselves off the hook. Just look at the replies you got: you said something that's true ("If you're brown or yellow or black... chances are you don't make the company club (as easily) as well, white people") and then you said a few things that were dumb ("I've seen it with my own eyes...", and the thing about confusing not-wanting-to-network with ethnicity), and look at which part got the replies.
If you want to preach the uncomfortable truths, you've gotta be on your A game. And if you play a C game, you just distract the audience, which makes it harder for other people to explain the situation, which means that the racism will continue. As well as all the other forms of privilege, which I notice you didn't much care about (your "btw women" notwithstanding).
- ahmad19526 14y agoHey thanks for this feedback! I really was on my C game, maybe even my F game. But to defend myself, I didn't have time at the moment I was writing this comment to go in depth or really focus on making a good argument. But thats not a good excuse. Also my goal wasn't to fully educate people, i just wanted to spark alternative explanations and hope people would figure out the fully story for themselves. But you're right, I was doing it wrong and it will let people attack me for the weak things.. My bad, will up my game next time.